Spanking and impact play. We usually hear Impact when thinking of something like a car accident or a plane crash, but in BDSM it means nothing so extreme as that, though it is certainly the SM (Sadism and Masochism) part. The great thing is, that you already know about Impact Play, but just don’t know it. Read more about Impact Play.
If the hard smack of a woman’ s hand on your ass gives you an instant hard on, you may have a spanking fetish. Read more about various types of spanking in What is a Spanking Fetish?
In many sexual realms, like the sadomasochistic (s/m) fetish community, being spanked as punishment is a sexually arousing, sexually exciting practice. Something you might enjoy. Not sure? Decide for yourself after reading Is Spanking a Reward or a Punishment?
I love being a Mistress and having submissves. By far my favorite thing to do with or to my submissives is to spank them. That is most enjoyable and though I cannot say exactly why, I do have a theory. Continue reading I Enjoy Spanking Submissives.
Know first off that being spanked for punishment is not to be enjoyed, it’s for correcting your bad behavior. Continue reading Lectures for Punishment Spankings.
Cracks, whacks and smacks turn you on? The good news for spankophiles or those who like be spanked like you is the turn-ons are limitless. Not only are there more types of spanking than just the old school open-hand smack on the ass, there are different implements, intensities and scenes to satisfy every fantasy you can muster up in that horny little head of yours. Read more about the various Types of Spankings.
Go back to a day and time when those that misbehaved were punished by switching their behinds with a birch branch. This is one of many forms of corporal punishment. From caning to flogging, rulers to belts, corporal punishment has been around people everywhere decided to do “wrong” things. But today, many folks find erotic pleasure in the very experience that sent them crying and running to their rooms. Read more about it in What is Corporal Punishment?
Any spanking, by hand, paddle, or belt can be a turn on. If only you’ll let it. Read how in How Spanking can be a Turn-on.
Guys tell me I’m a sexy bitch. The truth is, I am. My legs are long and lean. I love my fishnets. I love my heels. I shave my bush, smell like an intoxicating bouquet and wear low cut tops to show-off my real “c” cup breasts. Guys turn me on. But nothing, I mean nothing turns me on more than spanking my submissives. Read more about it in Why I Enjoy Spanking Submissives.
Lots of people think of spanking as something they don’t want. It’s a punishment right? It is something that happens to us when we have done something wrong. It is not what many naturally think of as erotic, but it can be. In fact, there are more people than you would probably imagine who love the thought of being spanked. Read more about it in Why Spanking is Exciting.
Slapping someone’s ass with a hand is the type of spanking virtually everyone on the planet is familiar with. What you or others may not know, are just how many other spanking implements there are besides fleshy palms and bony fingers. Read all about the various spanking tools available in Spanking Implements and Implements for Spanking.
So it wasn’t until I was an adult that I was introduced to spanking. During a fuck-romp in the back of my van, the chick I was pumping got so hot she spanked my ass over and over, dug her nails in too. It was fucking hot! Read all about Why I Love Being Spanked!
I was married once but it didn’t work out. Though the fact that I never felt I could tell her about my fetish may have played a part. I don’t think so, but hey, honesty is always important and I was never totally honest with her about what I really needed to get completely turned on. I have a spanking fetish. Read all about it in I Love Being Spanked too!
Spanking fetishists are turned on by the act of being spanked or of spanking someone else. This isn’t’ just for those who feel they need to be spanked, but for those who love to do the spanking, like a Mistress. However, either way there are some things that not everyone understands about erotic spankings. Here are ten facts about spanking that just don’t change.
I find myself willfully disobeying her. Choosing not to do what my Mistress had instructed me to do. Not because I couldn’t, but because I was deciding to do something else or do nothing instead. This amused her at first. She called me “the rebel” and would spank me lightly, reminding me who was in charge. That was until she realized I enjoyed the spankings. Continue reading She Spanks me and it Turns me On.
Lots of people think of being spanked as something they don’t want. It’s a punishment right? It is something that happens to us when we have done something wrong. It is not what many naturally think of as erotic, but it can be. In fact, there are more people than you would probably imagine who love the thought of being spanked. Continue reading Why Spanking is Exciting.
Spanking and impact play are practically synonymous with BDSM. This type of play is often one of the first things that would-be subs and Dommes try when they begin dipping their toes into the big pool of kink. Continue reading All About Femdom Spanking and Impact Play.