by Mistress Riley of www.spankedbyphone.com
You may hear “spanking phone sex” and just think “bare hand on ass fun.” What I hear is something completely different; I hear a door opening to many different options.
Spanking is a form of impact play. It can be done with the bare nakedness of a hand or a variety of fun toys. I told you; spanking is an open door to several fun and exciting opportunities!
Let’s consider the benefits spanking brings to a phone sex session. With the distance between you and your mistress, there are senses that don’t always get stimulated. Though our brains are the most powerful sex organ we all possess, intensity can be added when we fuel these senses.
Even just the sound of a sharp SMACK against your skin can echo in your mind and send a shock through your body. Adding realism to your sensual experience, let’s consider another sense we can tease; touch. This one is really important-not just for you, the submissive-but for your mistress as well.
Personally, I think a sub who is willing to go above and beyond just the imagination by inflicting the sometimes harsh-but needed-spanking upon themselves is arousing! As a mistress, hearing the smack and the short breathless whimpers that follow, is hot. It lets me know the amount of power you are truly granting me, building a stronger foundation between submissive and mistress.
The touch doesn’t stop with just the spankings. After a round of a few smacks of your hand, you can feel the heat, and the raise of skin matching a hand print. Then, there’s the slight stinging sensation when you brush over it gently with your hand. Even in a spanking phone sex session, it adds a reminder of who owns you.
It’s fair to say a majority think “spanking” and picture being bent over receiving a bare-bottom spanking. Not that there’s anything wrong with the traditional spanking, but we can spice it up a bit. If you are in love with being bent over my knee, I can choose to make sure it’s a spanking you won’t easily forget.
Even with just my bare hand, making it a little wet with water will intensify the sting brought down in my firm swat again, and again, right on the fleshiest part of your ass on each cheek.
Break out the paddle! Yes, I even have a spanking paddle. I will say, it makes a pleasant sound, perfect for paddling the lower ass and upper thigh area. Even a few gentle smacks on your inner thigh will send the tingles all over.
Don’t have a paddle? No worries. The back of a hairbrush will do. Other items, such as: whips, floggers, and even a belt are often used but I do advise against using them on yourself. Those are best with a partner who can control the strikes as they can easily miss the targeted area with an untrained hand.
Spanking doesn’t just stay in the ass area these days. Although one who likes a firm spanking on the rump may not like a smack along their stomach; some do. It’s all about knowing how much power to apply to the blow. Luckily, your mistress knows. Another area to spank is your pectoral area, around the nipple region. Swatting with a ruler in quick blows does one hell of a job. Then, of course, if you are a lover of some CBT , it goes without saying that a few smacks to the groin area are a welcomed command from your mistress.
It should be clear why I love being a spanking phone sex mistress. There are so many options and so many ways to add a little spice to any role play scenario. I truly believe that spanking intensifies the connection between me and my submissive. So, if you have thought about giving it a try, I urge you to stop thinking about it, and take action. Get your mistress, and get your spanking!