Spankings Arenít Always About Punishment
by Ms. Delia of www.begformistress.com
If you read a lot of Femdom porn, or spend a lot of time watching BDSM videos Ė and I know you do, you chronic masturbator! Ė you might think that spankings and corporal play is all about punishment and pain. It doesnít have to be! I have know many BDSM players who are into spankings as part of their play. Some of them donít even identify as submissives or slaves. They identify as bottoms Ė which, considering Iím making their bottoms warm and red seems rather appropriate to me! In fact, I find spankings, paddling and floggings to be quite intimate and sensual at times.
What Is It About Spanking
For some, spanking and corporal play in general is like comfort food. It brings you back to a time in your life when you felt safe and cared for. For some, itís all about the sensation. Yes, orgasms are good, but some spankoís can actually orgasm just from being spanked. The spanking/paddling/flogging is what takes it from a run of the mill climax to something intense and all consuming.
The Over The Knee Spanking
I really donít think it gets more intimate than this Ė an over-the-knee spanking. Having you stand before me and get naked, the anticipating on your face as you know that very shortly, youíll be laying in my lap, my upturned hand poised over your pasty white bottom. Your excitement grows, just like I can feel your cock growing, trapped in between my silky thighs. The SMACK!, as my hand comes down on your ass, leaving my handprint on your cheek, red and warm. Then I switch sides, and alternate, as you squirm. Iím not sure if youíre squirming because of the sensations? Or are you trying to rub one out against my pantyhose you naughty slut? Maybe you do need to be punished after all, hmmm? Let me get my hairbrush!
A Fur Covered Kiss
I have this very special paddle, which I love! Itís wood on one side Ė but on the other, itís covered in nice soft fur. Itís feels so nice as I rub that over your butt cheeks. Then you feel it pull away, and it comes back down Ė hard! Then some rubbing, to soothe that burning and stingingÖthen another paddle blow. Over and over, alternating the soothing rub of the fur, with the sting and burn of a spank. See, I can be kindÖand cruel, too!
Floggings Ė Not Just For Bottoms!
And I donít mean those who call themselves bottoms! When I use a paddle or my hand, I try to keep to your pale white ass. Okay, occasional Iíll slap a cock or paddle some balls, but mostly, I just use it on your bottom. A flogger though, Iíll use all over you, because itís more of a diffuse, thuddy all over sensation, as opposed to a sharp, stinging, just in one spot. I love working my deerskin flogger from your shoulders, down your back, over your ass and the tops of your thighs, then all the way back up again. It leaves such pretty marks!
Also, you should know this. When I spank you, I want to leave you something to remember me by. So whether is soft and sensual, or strict and punishing, every time you sit down for the next few days, youíll know just who owns your ass!