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I would like to speak about spankings from my nurturing side. It's a side I don't often show, when I'm body slamming sissies and subs who test me. I believe that spanking your subs comes from a place of love. It's not just a form of discipline. It's a form of grounding. As a switch, a good spanking can thrill and adjust whatever attitude I had prior. As a Black Woman and Dominant, spanking you is what you need, even if you didn't know you need it.
Spankings offer an element of surprise, when one isn't expecting one. They are excellent for bratty subs - aside from ignoring them completely - because sometimes when your bratty sub is being bratty, they are simply saying "please beat my ass, Mistress. I need it." And depending on my mood I'm happy to comply. This next thing I have to say is for white male subs only.
If more white men got regular spankings, they might not be half as insufferable as they are. I'm not referring just to subs either. I think some of you so called alpha-males need a good over the knee paddling. Now before everyone gets upset with me for ruining their fantasy by talking about real life issues - STFU.
I want to spank you, and then when I'm done spanking you, and we're both flustered and hot and bothered, I will allow you to do something about that, that will help both of us. Discipline is part of nurturing. I like to envision a "hey honey, how was your day?" scene. One where you lock the door, strip, lay across my lap, and tell me all about the stressful board meeting, or the 4 hour surgery procedure, or the project deadline, or how you landed that sale you were lusting after with a difficult buyer. All while your bare bottom is exposed, and being administered stinging, shocking, painful strikes across those cheeks.
When you finish venting, and your ass is rosy, and I'm sitting on your face, you will think to yourself - life isn't so bad after all.
Reluctant spankings happen to be my favorite. You want it, but you are pretending you don't want it. Or.. you really don't want it, and I've decided you deserve it. I especially like spanking sissies, right before I impale them on my girl cock, or choke them with it. Do the words "make that ass rosy, for Duchess" make you tingle all over.
Oh.. you want to spank me? I've experienced this interesting phenomenon, where so called Doms think they can handle me, until it's time to actually handle me. I mentioned bratty subs before, yes? You're talking to someone who is in fact, the brattiest of subs. I like attention just like you do, and not doing what I'm told.
I wouldn't advise disobeying me, though. My mean streak isn't one you want to cross. If you're feeling froggy, you have my permission, to call me. Have a belt, a paddle, and anything else I can beat you with, ready when you call. And be naked, and on your knees. Ask for The Ebony Femdom, Duchess Willow.
Do You Need a Femdom Spanking?
by Mistress Daphne of www.spankedbyphone.com
Have you been a naughty boy or girl? Or does the words “spanking” and “paddling” turn you on?
Two Kinds of Femdom Spankings
Punitive: If you have done something wrong, broken a rule, or made your Mistress upset and she paddled you, that would constitute a punitive spanking.
Sensual: Others, however, do not want a punishing spanking, but rather something sensuous and delightfully sensory rich from the Mistress.
Here, I will cover each of those.
Why Might A Mistress Need to Spank You?
No one can be perfect all the time, not even you. When you are naughty, you need to be spanked for that, don’t you? I know you do!
Before we get to the actual spanking part, what kinds of things might you get a punitive paddling for?
- Looking at a woman
- Looking a woman in the eyes
- Thinking sexual thoughts about women
- Masturbating without permission
- Rolling your eyes at your Mistress
- Copping attitude towards your Mistress
- When you do the same behavior you are not allowed to do twice and you have already been punished in another way… stood in the corner, for example
- “Borrowing” items from your Mistress without permission (panties, makeup, bras, skirts, etc.)
- Disrespecting her to others
All of these and more are reasons your Femdom Mistress might spank your behind for punishment.
What is a Punishing Spanking Like?
A punitive spanking might start with the Mistress’ hand, but often moves quickly to using an implement. A hairbrush, a wooden spoon, a paddle, a ruler, or some other item that can leave your bottom red and sore.
She will ask you to repeat your infraction and then apologize for being a bad boy or girl as each thwack goes onto your (sometimes bare) bottom. She might have you count the times the paddle hits your bottom, oftentimes, thanking her for giving you each paddle.
Each Femdom Mistress has her own style, so it will be important to learn your Mistress’ desires for your misbehavior’s correction.
Why Might You Want a Spanking from a Mistress?
Ah, there are those of you who love to be spanked. Those who do not need to be a bad boy or girl or to do something wrong on purpose in order to be paddled. For you all, you might want (and need!) an erotic spanking instead.
Perhaps you have memories of being paddled in school and when the teacher’s “Board of Education” slapped against your jeans, your dick got hard and CLICK, forevermore, the thought of having a paddling turned you on.
So now that you are a grown-up, your desire for paddling has never diminished. You crave them more than you ever did in high school. And now, you can have that delicious spanking and masturbate at the same time. How great is that?
Femdom Erotic Spanking
An erotic spanking often begins with the Mistress’ hand, gently caressing your bare bottom and does not usually move to using an implement until it is good and warmed up. She might tap, tap, tap on your butt gently before starting to lay her smacking hand harder on your skin.
She might rub your bottom between whacks, too. These caresses are all a part of the sensual aspects of the spanking. Sure, you will end up with a red and stinging back end, but your dick will be the happier for it.
How to Ask for the Femdom Spanking You Want
One of the best ways to work with a Mistress who will be paddling you is to tell her how you got into being spanked. What was it that started the sensory experience of having someone’s hand or wooden spoon on your butt?
These pieces of information can help her create, or re-create, the spanking you desire so you are completely fulfilled after you have been sufficiently spanked.
When You’re Ready!
You can have the type of spanking or paddling from your Mistress, just be clear about your needs and make sure you two are a good fit. After that, bend over and take it like a boy!
Give one of our Femdom Spanking Mistresses a call, today!