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As a lifestyle Domme, I have many favorite fetishes. Some of the more physical, hands on types of play sessions I enjoy involve punishment of some sort.
Say my submissive (you) has done something against my wishes or without my permission; then you will need to be disciplined as a reminder of why you shouldn't have done that! Or perhaps you've disappointed me in some way; I've taken you to a party as a toy to share and you didn't perform to my standards. Again discipline must be administered. You must be taught a lesson.
With some submissives; a strict speaking to will suffice. The sheer knowledge of having disappointed Mistress will have you quivering on your knees. For others though, physical punishment is the way to go. It's different for everyone; but I will admit to enjoying administering said punishment!
Here are just a few of my favorite punishment implements:
~ A bare hand.
~ His own belt.
~ A flogger.
~ A cane.
~ A paddle.
~ A ruler.
~ A hair brush.
~ A single tail/whip.
~ A shoe.
~ A wooden spoon/plastic spatula.
Whether bent over my knee or kneeling on a spanking bench; any of these implements will assist me in administering the discipline plan. Sometimes its just one lick. Sometimes it's more. These sessions can happen in private but could also be done in public for added public humiliation.
I always have my sub count the licks, whips, spanks, or strokes. And you must thank Mistress.
When I administer discipline; it is done out of care. Not out of anger or with the intention to hurt my playmate. A caring dominant wants to teach her sub/pet/toy the correct way of doing things; and sometimes the lesson is best taught this way.
Is it time for your spanking?
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Do You Need a Femdom Spanking?
by Mistress Daphne of www.spankedbyphone.com
Have you been a naughty boy or girl? Or does the words “spanking” and “paddling” turn you on?
Two Kinds of Femdom Spankings
Punitive: If you have done something wrong, broken a rule, or made your Mistress upset and she paddled you, that would constitute a punitive spanking.
Sensual: Others, however, do not want a punishing spanking, but rather something sensuous and delightfully sensory rich from the Mistress.
Here, I will cover each of those.
Why Might A Mistress Need to Spank You?
No one can be perfect all the time, not even you. When you are naughty, you need to be spanked for that, don’t you? I know you do!
Before we get to the actual spanking part, what kinds of things might you get a punitive paddling for?
- Looking at a woman
- Looking a woman in the eyes
- Thinking sexual thoughts about women
- Masturbating without permission
- Rolling your eyes at your Mistress
- Copping attitude towards your Mistress
- When you do the same behavior you are not allowed to do twice and you have already been punished in another way… stood in the corner, for example
- “Borrowing” items from your Mistress without permission (panties, makeup, bras, skirts, etc.)
- Disrespecting her to others
All of these and more are reasons your Femdom Mistress might spank your behind for punishment.
What is a Punishing Spanking Like?
A punitive spanking might start with the Mistress’ hand, but often moves quickly to using an implement. A hairbrush, a wooden spoon, a paddle, a ruler, or some other item that can leave your bottom red and sore.
She will ask you to repeat your infraction and then apologize for being a bad boy or girl as each thwack goes onto your (sometimes bare) bottom. She might have you count the times the paddle hits your bottom, oftentimes, thanking her for giving you each paddle.
Each Femdom Mistress has her own style, so it will be important to learn your Mistress’ desires for your misbehavior’s correction.
Why Might You Want a Spanking from a Mistress?
Ah, there are those of you who love to be spanked. Those who do not need to be a bad boy or girl or to do something wrong on purpose in order to be paddled. For you all, you might want (and need!) an erotic spanking instead.
Perhaps you have memories of being paddled in school and when the teacher’s “Board of Education” slapped against your jeans, your dick got hard and CLICK, forevermore, the thought of having a paddling turned you on.
So now that you are a grown-up, your desire for paddling has never diminished. You crave them more than you ever did in high school. And now, you can have that delicious spanking and masturbate at the same time. How great is that?
Femdom Erotic Spanking
An erotic spanking often begins with the Mistress’ hand, gently caressing your bare bottom and does not usually move to using an implement until it is good and warmed up. She might tap, tap, tap on your butt gently before starting to lay her smacking hand harder on your skin.
She might rub your bottom between whacks, too. These caresses are all a part of the sensual aspects of the spanking. Sure, you will end up with a red and stinging back end, but your dick will be the happier for it.
How to Ask for the Femdom Spanking You Want
One of the best ways to work with a Mistress who will be paddling you is to tell her how you got into being spanked. What was it that started the sensory experience of having someone’s hand or wooden spoon on your butt?
These pieces of information can help her create, or re-create, the spanking you desire so you are completely fulfilled after you have been sufficiently spanked.
When You’re Ready!
You can have the type of spanking or paddling from your Mistress, just be clear about your needs and make sure you two are a good fit. After that, bend over and take it like a boy!
Give one of our Femdom Spanking Mistresses a call, today!